LA NOCHE ES NUESTRA

I'm Married now, and got a pixie due to damaged hair and also the desire of looking like Michelle Williams..... Marriage is fun!!!!!!!!!! , I'll discuss that in a different post ...however this post is about Lin, which a week before the wedding went ultra violet on me!!! (she took me to this awesome place to get my nails done, get a wax, shop for candles and so much more!). But I won't rant about how much she helped because my writing can't do her justice, but i will talk about her......

 As a friend she's been with me through tough times I know people always say that but what does it mean?  i was thinking about it and i have no clue its something you FEEL , like when your crying and your friend holds your hand and tells you exactly what you need to hear, gives you clarity and make that miserable moment shorter , or who takes you out not necessarily to discuss your tremulous day but to be a friend , I think thats kind of what that phrase means. Me and Lin have different personalities I won't sit here and confetti-up our friendship by saying we are identical, (although we have had almost telepathic moments in the past ) we are NOT, but we know how to keep our real friendship going. When ever a conflict has begun we have the courage and love to reach-out to each-other because we care. I love how Lin takes on mistakes, mistakes are part of life, its how you grow not just hers but her friends she will never condemn you if you've done something unconventional, although if she doesn't truly care about you i doubt you'll be getting any of her forgiveness. She lets me shine, this sounds cheesy but she does especially when she complements me because thats what friends do lol! in other words she lets me be me. 

Lin in her alone time could perhaps be found listening to RADIOHEAD, feeling ,melancholia feeling sadness its part of her personality, its half of who she is it's what makes her independent, wise, its what recharges  her view on life, its how she puts her thoughts back on track and how she starts planning her next trip . This doesn't mean that the moment you'll spend time with her she'll pour all those deep thoughts onto you pshshsh as if you'd be that lucky.  It's unfortunate that many have disappointed her in the past, I guess when your young everything seems tangible until you loose it and live with regret. Lin won't live with regret what she likes she goes after,  if it doesn't work-out what does she have to loose when she's that cool?  nothing. You see Lin's  a dreamer, sooooo naturally life gets her down sometimes,  but she being the renegade she is, only allows that for about a day maybe a week and shes back on dreamer mode.

Now that i'm married things did change just like she stated, however not entirely, we had Wednesday coffee, so happy she wanted to come over my new place,  and are currently making plans to go to a concert. And trust me when I say i intend to keep it that way for as long as possible!!! being married also thought me something i absolutely without a doubt want to keep what i love close to me... like Joe who from 12/16/2017 became my loyal companion and love of my life but my heart is big and how can I forget my girl crush back in 2009? when she said the following  "But as we spent more and more time together, our friendship, respect, and love for one another has grown. We can take about things that we never would with others. Those difficult conversations are about our feelings feel safe due to a nonjudgmental environment. 

She's there on my early mornings at 6 am even if she lives far. She's there late at night with a cup of coffee. I think we've become closer in these last few weeks. Life is so weird and it sucks. But we can push through it with help from friends. We can conquer all!"

We've been friends almost a decade, and i wish for many many more! I love you Lin keep strong and never forget whats truly important in life , "La noche es nuestra" and I can't wait to have white hair and still be cool and tell younger girls "oh yea this is my bestie I've known her for 20 years".... imagine!!!!

♥