Those who dwell among the beauties and mysteries of the earth are never alone or weary of life - Rachel Carson

Tuesday, June 7, 2016

“True friendship multiplies the good in life and divides its evils. Strive to have friends, for life without friends is like life on a desert island… to find one real friend in a lifetime is good fortune; to keep her is a blessing.”

Bygone years are bygone years right?...... last Friday I went to go see Alice, it was fantastic so colorful and full of imagination totally girl power if you ask me.. The hatter said "you will see me in the gardens of memory and in the castles of dreams" that quote hit me deep I've felt that way my entire life I've felt like certain memories can be relived, and change your mood to a positive note. Nostalgia isn't always pretty, but ultimately its a beautiful surreal feeling.... worst case scenario you shed tears or erupt with rage and hostility.

I chopped my hair!! very Kristen Stewart 2016 hahaha... its not a look that I'll be rocking for a long time but I really wanted to get rid of all my Jet Black tips and grow out my brown hair.

Cutting my hair brought back memories, I was in 7th grade the first time it happened, I was 19 the second time around and now I'm 27. I felt like certain memories never leave you I was very into La Oreja de Van Gogh at that time................ her voice came to mind so I'm listening to her at the moment, the present at times is tainted by the past.

Lin said, well she shared this quote "27 is an age of reflection for a women. It is at this age that women achieve greater success in both picking a mate or deciding not too. It is during this time that women generally outgrow weak friendships and find themselves unwilling to engage or entertain anything that isn't beneficial to their own life as well as their love life" when she sent this too me I was flabbergasted! nothing could be further from the truth. Friendships have ups and downs, when close friends are going through a rough patch  (life shoots them with plenty of uncertainty, or maybe they're not where they want to be in life) instead of turning into a bitter individual and expecting them to be 100% happy all the time and fun all the time I understand, and support them whatever way I can because friendships are not found easily, this isn't "Clueless" this is real life and real people don't make-up like Cher & Tai.

I think of myself as a fortunate one, yea life is harsh but thankfully I have trustworthy friends that are so cool!!!!....and a mother who is wacky but loves me with her surviving heart, a brother that is hard to love, and a boyfriend that loves me unconditionally. However not everything is color de Rosa ........ I recently experience  friendship breakups.

but like they say tomorrow we'll dream again, I'm very positive and the bad experiences I had only make me appreciate the friends I have now.... never underestimate the power of friends.

“Things are never quite as scary when you have a best friend.”  Bill Watterson

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